"BEING APART TEACHES US HOW TO BE TOGETHER"

Being separated from our loved ones can be challenging, whether it's due to distance, work commitments, or other factors. However, being away from those we love can also lead to a greater appreciation for them. The distance can provide us with a new perspective on our relationships and help us realize just how important our loved ones are to us.

Family is an integral part of our lives. They are the people who we grow up with, who shape us into the individuals we become. However, sometimes, due to circumstances such as work or education, we may find ourselves physically separated from our families. While this can be difficult, being away from our family can also lead to a greater appreciation for them. Distance brings clarity. When we are physically apart from our loved ones, we are forced to confront the reality of our relationships. We may find ourselves missing their presence, their laughter, and the comfort they bring us. This distance can also help us recognize the little things we took for granted, such as their smile or the way they make us feel.

When we are together with our loved ones regularly, it can be easy to overlook the special qualities that make them unique.

However, distance provides us with a new perspective that allows us to see our loved ones in a different light. We may come to appreciate their qualities and characteristics more fully, recognizing how they enrich our lives.

Being away teaches us to make the most of our time together. When we're away from our loved ones, we often look forward to the next time we'll be together. This anticipation can make the time spent with them all the more precious. It can motivate us to make the most of our time together, to create meaningful experiences and memories. When we're with our loved ones, we may find ourselves more present in the moment, cherishing the time we have together. We may also find ourselves communicating more openly and honestly, recognizing the value of the time we have together.

Distance strengthens our relationships. Being apart from our loved ones can be challenging, but it can also help strengthen our relationships. Distance can provide us with a new perspective on our relationships and allow us to appreciate the unique qualities that make our loved ones special. This appreciation can lead to deeper connections and a greater sense of intimacy when we're together. Being apart from our loved ones can help us develop our own sense of self. It can provide us with an opportunity to explore our interests, build our skills, and cultivate our own sense of identity. When we come back together with our loved ones, we may find that we're more confident, grounded, and fulfilled, which can enrich our relationships.

The truth is that distance can be challenging, but it can also help us appreciate our loved ones more fully. The time spent apart can provide us with a new perspective on our relationships, motivate us to make the most of our time together, and strengthen our connections. Ultimately, the distance can help us cultivate a greater sense of gratitude for the people who make our lives richer and more fulfilling. Once we are able to survive this distance, we learn to be better at being in people's lives, and appreciate their being in ours.

If you are reading this while away from your loved ones, take a minute to reflect on how many of the aforementioned have applied to you as a result of distance. How have you been dealing with distance, and how has it impacted your perception about relationships and how to maintain them? Say your answers out loud to fully absorb them, and then evaluate yourself as to whether or not absence or distance have made you more appreciative of the people around you.

Author: Awa Conteh